In the past few years, we have interviewed literally hundreds of consumers about a variety of products and services. Some of my favorite interviews take place with couples. I’m convinced you get the most “truthful” feedback when you interview two people (in relationship) as opposed to just one. It’s not that anyone is trying to be deceitful, but people don’t always see themselves (or their own behavior) in the truest of light. They portray themselves in an idealized manner, either consciously or not. When we do the same interview with a consumer and their partner, discrepancies will often be called into the light.
Just yesterday we were interviewing a couple about their past purchases of a new product and it’s ongoing usage. The outspoken husband was telling us in great detail about how he uses a given product. I noticed his wife making some subtle reactions, but remaining quiet. Before long, she couldn’t contain herself any longer, and jumped right into the conversation. ”That’s not at all what you do”, she said. Then she went on to give her perspective on his product usage. Naturally, this led to quite a debate between the two of them. When the discussion finally wound down, they both agreed that the actual behavior was somewhere between what either of them recalled on their own.
This illustrates two points. First, the best path to consumer understanding is real time, in-context observation. However, this is not always possible or practical. The second point is, people don’t always see themselves in a true light. Having another on hand to interact with can bring you closer to reality.





